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Posted Nick on 13 June 2016 - 09:53 AM
Yes, I'm "fine," I was nowhere near Pulse on Saturday night. Although, I used to live less than 2 miles away from it & drove past it every day on my way to work. Former roommates bartended there, many friends went there regularly, I myself had been there on many occasions in years past. I haven't been there personally in several years, but many friends and coworkers went there regularly. I don't mean to make this about me in the slightest, just trying to express how surreal it is that something like this can happen in actual reality so close to home and involve people I know. Orlando is not a big city.
Pulse attracted a particularly young crowd among the bars in Orlando, and it was also a popular place for not just GLBT folks, but it welcomed all people. There really aren't that many clubs in town where people go to dance, gay or otherwise. The victims are not exclusively gay and this is not a GLBT tragedy, but has impacted all of us.
We're in the headlines twice in as many days for senseless acts of murder. Christina Grimmie's murder Friday night happened at the Plaza Live, just a few miles away from Pulse. Both were people who just wanted to hurt people they've never even met. I can't wrap my brain around it.
Posted Lover of Purple on 24 September 2015 - 10:10 PM
I mostly stopped in to explain my absence and let everyone know that I may not bet here often but I will keep ExIsle going as long as you enjoy it.
Posted Sci-Fi Girl on 24 June 2014 - 10:28 AM
You made a call, which you believe was right. Others disagreed. I would like to think that LoP reviewed the case presented by both sides, then reviewed the posts and actions in question, and ultimately made a different call than you did. But that is only a guess on my part.
It is all a little vague and second hand though. I assume LoP will be along at some point to make an official statement?
Humbly (I hope),
You'll get your statement when LoP gets there eventually.
And of course you'd claim my post is unfair. You get what you want. He caved in to your demands among others. Of course you're happy.
I stand by what I said. My post is entirely fair and true.
You make it sound like I'm being selfish, just because I disagree with you. No, I'm not happy. I'm not happy that friendships have been lost, that people have left, and that trusts have been broken (on both sides apparently?).
You seem to think that anyone who disagrees with you is both wrong, and selfishly trying to win just for the sake of winning, like a bunch of spoiled brats. Think what you want, but that is not a fair way to categorize the membership. We are smart people, we all have opinions, and it is perfectly normal for smart people to have differing opinions from time to time. Disagreeing with you doesn't automatically make someone wrong.
And now I am truly out of this thread, because you are apparently attacking me just for opening my mouth. You are upset with a decision, please try not to take it out on everyone.
Posted Balthamos on 19 February 2013 - 01:03 PM
If you want to teach different PoVs on the creation of the universe in one class room then pick a class room and teach the science parts as science and the religious views as religion. Explain as honestly as possible where each viewpoint comes from and let children make an informed decision or discuss it with someone they trust.
Posted Themis on 08 November 2012 - 08:03 AM
Posted Dev F on 19 July 2012 - 09:39 AM
Posted Cardie on 29 May 2012 - 07:27 PM
But we have to ask ourselves: when this particular regulation of sexual desire entered the sacred texts, what did the social order look like? What kinds of behavior needed to be encouraged and which condemned so that the community of believers could prosper both spiritually and materially? Jewish dietary laws, for instance, sometimes forbade foods that were the most likely to spoil or carry parasites and forbidding them contributed to the physical health of the community. But others targeted particular foods associated with the religious rituals of neighboring tribes who worshipped different gods. If Hebrews could not eat pork, then they were less likely to wander into an idolatrous orgy in which pigs were sacrificed and then consumed as a key element of the ritual. "Sin" often had earthly, pragmatic reasoning behind its definition.
As far as the Abrahamic religions go, society was patriarchal and agrarian when their laws were codified. Having lots of children--since infant mortality was high--assured a strength in numbers to work the land, care for parents when they could no longer work, and band together to defend the tribe from enemies. "Be fruitful and multiply," God tells the Israelites. The last thing those societies wanted was for sexual satisfaction to be divorced from procreation. Thus not only homosexuality but masturbation get the thumbs down. This is also the root of the Catholic prohibitions on contraception. (And because inheritance from father to son played a big part in how wealth and power were maintained, female chastity within marriage became a big deal so that paternity could be trusted. Adultery also became a big sin.)
We live in a very different world now, and many of these strictures, although still articles of faith, don't become political issues. I've never quite figured out why homosexuality is so disproportionately condemned by contemporary believers. I can guess that perhaps the number of people who are tempted by same-sex desire has always been lower than the percentage of those longing for a ham sandwich, an extra-marital liaison, or self-pleasure. But I do believe that to a thinking person the religious prohibition now serves as a justification for a deep-seated human prejudice. I have felt other sorts of prejudice that my rational self has to tell me are prejudices and unworthy of me. I've never felt anti-homosexual prejudice, so I don't claim that I understand it and know how best to overcome it.
Posted Cait on 13 March 2016 - 09:12 PM
Our voters might not remember what fascism can do to a country [world] but Germany and Italy sure remember. England and France remember. Israel remembers. We're walking not only our country, but the world into WWIII. And because you [Lots] think Trump's first amendments rights have been violated, you'd cast a vote for a man that would destroy our Republic and the rest of the world right along with it.
People who would vote for such a man think we live in some sort of a vacuum. The rest of the world watches every election year to see what might affect their world. You cannot have a demagogue with the launch codes. No country on the earth will sit still for that. While we laugh at "Godwinism" in our internet posts, the rest of the world remembers WWII and how Nazi Germany and Fascist italy spread across Europe and North Africa, leaving death behind them. It's no laughing matter to Europe.
Europe, who will begin to feel uneasy at all the military bases we currently have around the world. Meant at one time to be a defense for countries, but under a fascist demagogue will feel more like they've already been invaded.
Sound hysterical on my part. I hope so. that's how bad Trump is in the WH and with launch codes. A narcissistic sociopath as commander of the largest armed forces in the world and has nukes. Hitler will look like a school boy with a Napoleon complex.
And, if you think Trump would not go there, he's got a taste for power now and he won't hesitate to use it. he's already using it on the campaign trail. He is inciting violence against the day's boogeyman. He is outright telling them that he will pay their legal bills if they punch people out. He is calling protestors the people who are ruining America. This kind of Nationalism has a name, and a history.
And you'd vote for him because somebody protested. One day, and it may be sooner than you think, you'll be wishing a whole lot more people had protested.
Posted sierraleone on 12 December 2015 - 09:44 AM
So, conversely, that would mean that if any refugees are denied and forced back towards Syria and end up dead at the hands of terrorists.... That blood is on the hands of people who's fear-mongering leads to refugees being denied?
No, not them, not their fault? You mean, that blood is only on the hands of the terrorists? Hmm. Funny how that isn't the case if the foreign terrorists manage an attack on our soil. Instead you blame the good people just trying to help refugee populations out of desperate situation. It is called humanitarian aid. It has NOTHING to do with people trying to be PC, and to imply it is is an insult.
Posted RJDiogenes on 29 June 2014 - 12:06 PM
While I like the idea of the discussion being limited to one thread-- that was one of the four suggestions I made-- I don't like the idea of members not being able to participate. I understand that we're all guests here in somebody else's house and that if we're asked to take off our shoes, we should do that or not come in. However, the flip side of that is that this is also a community and that the members of that community should be able to express their opinions on any internal matters that arise, just as they do on external matters. In fact, that is even more important.
One of the most fundamental problems with the recent incident that I observed, as somebody not directly involved, is that there is a lot of antagonism between the regular members and the staff. Mods and members should not see each other as enemies. On a small scale, I was witnessing civil disobedience against a rigid authority. Some of the citizens were certainly acting out in extreme ways, but some members of the staff were also intransigent and showed no sign of listening to the concerns of the members. Now, some of that was eventually reversed-- after the situation had gone too far to be completely reparable, apparently-- but I don't think the content or tone of the new rules really addresses that as a fundamental issue.
Posted Omega on 24 June 2014 - 10:16 AM
Mikoto, I need to understand where you're coming from. You describe this as being at your expense, yourself as having been blackmailed and thrown to the wolves. All those involve your having lost something. I don't think anyone's proposing some sort of punishment for you; you did what you understood to be correct at the time. You'll go forward with a new understanding. So what have you lost? The perception of having been right? The ability to enforce a decision regardless of who considers it to be a bad one?
Why would you want either of those things? Pride? All decisions might be wrong. All decisions might be reversed. That should always be understood, in any situation. Sticking to something just because is rarely helpful. The cost of reversing a decision can't be ignored, either, of course. So again, I ask, what have you lost?
You seem to look at this as two sides at war, and your side just lost. I don't think you're alone in that. But the problem isn't the conclusion of the war, it's thinking there was a war in the first place. We're not opposing sides; we're a community with a disagreement. We've come to some sort of conclusion (apparently), and you didn't get what you wanted. That does not make you less part of the community, any more than all of us who live in democracies aren't part of them because our government doesn't represent our wishes.
So please. Don't go. Forgive.
Posted Godeskian on 15 June 2014 - 03:25 AM
While I agree with the sentiment, as long as people keep getting booted from threads in the fashion they have, I don't see it happening. I've detailed the reasons and my concerns in the PM.
I for one do not intend to let this get swept under the bridge. I will continue to post calmly, rationally, and with respect to everyone involved, but I believe the staff might have been over zealous in this case, and I'd like to find out what preceded this sudden glut of bootings.
Posted Spectacles on 09 June 2014 - 05:37 AM
Thread bootings, if they must continue, should happen immediately or not at all. The aim of a thread boot is to eject a disruptive poster from a conversation, not to punish someone for saying something in the conversation that upset others.
Upsets are going to happen when people discuss things. We're adults here. Let us deal with our own upsets--as we did in that thread.
Posted yadda yadda on 02 June 2014 - 10:30 AM
ROFLMAO! Ah, the famous, predictable, Liberal Democrat war cry for anyone who dares says "Obama isn't the second coming." The war cry used for anyone who disagrees, no matter how slightly, with an Obamabot. ROFLMAO!
You're the one who called the first African American President of the United States "boy". Maybe if your ass wasn't rolling all over the floor in mirth all the time you could catch your balance and read and interpret the veiled meaning and offensive connotations of your own posts.
Posted Spectacles on 06 April 2014 - 09:01 AM
You can read about Common Core here: http://en.wikipedia....ards_Initiative
Teachers are taking to the Internet and airwaves to condemn this imposition of standards that all students and their teachers should aspire to meet. And whether students meet the standards will be measured in tests.
I had to quit reading the DK diary this morning because in this one, to my horror, the teacher compared high standards and "high stakes testing" to child labor. A teacher.
Many teachers claim that being required to teach their students a certain set of information and skills each grade-level--and testing their students to see if they succeeded-- is ruining their creativity, innovation, enthusiasm, blah blah blah.
Here's an example from the WaPo, 2012:
I disagree with everything this person writes.
I am appalled that some of my fellow educators seem to be so lacking in the creativity and innovation they claim to treasure that they cannot see that teaching to high standards--and assessing students' performance with regard to those standards--does NOT mean there's no room in the classroom for critical thinking and creativity. Or fun.
The opponents of common core standards set up a false (and ridiculously distorted) dichotomy. Either schools are wellsprings of creativity and discovery and enthusiastic critical thinking OR they are factories of stressful, hard work.
I am extremely suspicious of these teachers who are doing the loudest protesting.
I've taught for going on 35 years. I taught high school students in the country in Alabama for a couple of years, and I've taught community college students for the past thirty.
In these years, I've had the misfortune of having more than a few colleagues who are prima donnas--and dons--who seem to think that by merely sharing their presence with students, they are teaching them something profound. At the heart of this narcissism is usually a fear of getting found out as a fraud. Their students may like them (in the teachers' minds, at least--but many students see through them), but their students often don't learn much from them.
When teachers who are lazy, tired, and/or delusional are the sole assessors of their students' work, they have plenty room in which to slack off.
Over the years almost every colleague I've known who resists community standards and assessments throws out the same old buzzwords: creativity, critical thinking, innovation, not cookie-cutters, blah blah. And almost every one who does is one who their colleagues roll their eyes at for their frequent entitled behavior and the gap between their reports of their students' performance and the actual results--which their colleagues see when these students subsequently land in the next level of composition, without the skills.
I have one colleague who goes apeshit if you say writing is a skill. "It is so much more than that! It is languaging one's perception of/creation of reality! And who are we to judge how one frames one's reality!" I'm serious. This is a young, "creative" professor whose students think his composition class is a joke because it shows them nothing about how to write college essays--which is a skill. There are certain "moves" you need to know how to make, ways of organizing ideas so that assertions are supported, etc. Yeah, it's hard and sometimes (not always) less fun than sitting around bullshitting about ideas that interest the professor. But it is valuable: academic writing is important to students' success in college and in their professions.
In a community college, many students are aware they were gypped in high school and they'd like to learn what they should know by now had anyone bothered to expect much from them.
This is what I've seen in my decades of teaching. This is why I support making teachers actually teach stuff that their students need to know.
I'm sure there are some flaws in the curriculum and the testing. But this is the biggest step in the right direction I've seen public education take. If we could improve the quality of education to the point that a high school diploma actually signifies a graduate has the reading, writing, and math skills necessary to either secure an entry-level office job or enter college without having to take a semester or two of remedial courses, that would be wonderful.
Leaving high school prepared for work or college would level the playing field between the working-class kids and those from professional-class families.
And, based on my experience, when students know that they actually MUST learn something they will--and if it's challenging, they will get a rush of pride when they master it. Then they're hooked on learning. And discipline problems vanish when students realize "hey, we're learning something here--and if I don't get it the teacher won't pass me on my cuteness."
So to my colleagues: please shut up and teach. Yes, you'll have to work harder and if you really do care about Johnny and Jane, you'll have to find a way to teach them this hard stuff. It will no longer work to patronizingly bail them out with "extra credit" which allows them to avoid learning and pull their fannies out of the fire at the last minute by handing in something they probably took the time to plagiarize off the Internet.
Long rant, I know. Whoever read through it, thanks for indulging me.
Posted M.E. on 15 June 2014 - 02:15 PM
What Yadda; Gode. Mark; LotS; Nonny; Baldy; SFG ... (because the ilst is too long) said.