The woman I mention in discussions of abortion, the one who tried to recruit me for Operation Rescue, claimed to have been coerced into having an abortion by a boyfriend. She had a daughter from a previous relationship, but apparently spent time with a man who wanted no children. She also claimed that the abortion rendered her sterile, and she clearly suffered terrible guilt because she couldn't give her current husband a child. Though her abortion was, according to her account, not her choice, she was rabidly antichoice for all other women (except, of course, her daughter, whom she, the big hypocrite, would have taken to another country if she, the daughter, wanted one), and completely disregarded my radically different experience of abortion when her recruiting attempts turned into outright bullying.
This is probably why I consider much of the antichoice rhetoric, over the top as much of it is, as an attempt to bully women who have already had abortions into guilt trips, and probably why I have upped my own rhetoric.